Anon Girl

I really want a boyfriend not because of the label that travels with it but because of the close relationship I get out of it. Any advice?
Anon girl


Hi anon girl, 
it sounds like you want a (boy) friend first, not a boyfriend. High school is probably the biggest time ever when you feel pressured to be in a relationship with someone but there's no need to rush. The first thing you should do is try to befriend a guy who has similar interests as you or someone who has that charming personality that you enjoy. Once you've done this, a friendship starts to form. If you continue to be a supportive friend and realize you can totally be yourself with this guy, then you never know, maybe your friendship might flourish!
But first, focus on your friendship. Friendship is much more important than a silly high school relationship. The title of being in a relationship with someone can make you feel pressured to do stuff with your guy friend that could probably harm your friendship, and if it's a guy worth having around, then you don't want to ruin the friendship you've worked hard for. We wish you the best with this fellow! :) 


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